Why are lullabies sad

my babies cry with lullabies!


Written by Lara_11 on March 4th, 2012, 9:22 pm

Just why..
I think that's sad ...
the lower lip rolls immediately as soon as the song starts playing.

 

Re: my babies cry with lullabies!

answer fromPatti 1977 on March 4th, 2012, 9:24 pm

then leave it out.

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Re: my babies cry with lullabies!

answer fromSteffi528 on March 4th, 2012, 9:24 pm

Uhhhhmmmm, throat ...

Do you sing the songs? And why should the babies find anything sad?
Maybe they're tired or just don't like songs.

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Re: my babies cry with lullabies!

answer fromshelleni on March 4th, 2012, 9:24 pm

I know that, my little one pulls a shovel as soon as music starts playing toys, but the phase is over - but lasted for six months. * grin *

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it can also be that your singing voice seems too strange to them

answer fromRM- on March 4th, 2012, 9:28 pm

some children react sensitively to differences in voice registers

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Re: it can also be that your singing voice seems too strange to you

answer fromSteffi528 on March 4th, 2012, 9:29 pm

or, if she sings herself, maybe transmits memories of her own while singing. Then they could hear sadness, but not their own

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so what?

answer frommamahelene on March 4th, 2012, 9:30 p.m.

then sing something yourself, there are worse things instead of constantly beading children and why do babies have to listen to music at all?

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9months

answer fromLara_11 on March 4th, 2012, 9:35 pm

but was already like that with my big one and he still feels sadness in it, although he is already 7 years old :)

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when I sing LA LE LU it's still ok ...

answer fromLara_11 on March 4th, 2012, 9:37 pm

the rest of it is probably not so nice anymore ...
I just listened to something with her on YouTube and lo and behold, reacts the same way.
We'll have to stay with LA LE LU :)

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Re: 9Mon.

answer fromMilochen on March 4th, 2012, 9:38 pm

Hmmm then sing something happier for him, it is not absolutely necessary to wind up a music box from sleep. My two love knee riders and other join-in songs!

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Re: my babies cry with lullabies!

answer fromLara_11 on March 4th, 2012, 9:38 pm

with my big one, the phase never passed.
He's 7 and when he hears a lullaby he hides somewhere so he doesn't have to cry.
Now the little one is starting to do it too.
She only reacts calmly and relaxed to LA LE LU.
It actually calms them down.

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How do you react to lullabies?

answer fromSteffi528 on March 4th, 2012, 9:40 pm

Are you transferring something there?
So negative feelings?

But I'm really gone now. night

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Re: 9Mon.

answer fromLara_11 on March 4th, 2012, 9:40 pm

hahahhaa !!!! sweet! we'll do that. But just before going to sleep, hopping rider hopping, she wouldn't close an eye all night :)
If she can't calm down, I sing LALELU to her, and then I quickly calm down. I've now played it on Youtube, soothes her too. Then I wanted to hear other songs, lo and behold, totally sad :)

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Re: How do you react to lullabies?

answer fromLara_11 on March 4th, 2012, 9:41 pm

Nope, I'm fine :)
i rather like Mozart songs horribly overwhelming for babies.
But otherwise actually no negative feeling about it.
I rather enjoy it.

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Re: How do you react to lullabies?

answer fromSteffi528 on March 4th, 2012, 9:44 pm

Then leave Mozart out if he's crushing.

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